Con Amor #004: Overcoming the Vulnerability Ick
I have big fucking dreams.
It’s been the truth since I was a little girl, and I suspect it’ll always be true for me.
I want to make a lot of money. I want my coaching business to be a real business with lots of clients. I want to get paid to speak. I want to write a New York Times bestseller. I w...
Sep 02, 2026
vulnerability
Con Amor #003: Be a Goldfish
Consistency is hard as fuck.
The movie montage part where the protagonist gets their shit together and works hard to overcome their obstacles is a lot cooler to watch on a screen than it is to actually live out in real life. The movies make consistency look really fun! Two minutes of a motivation...
Aug 14, 2026
consistency
Con Amor #002: Stop Asking for Permission
The hardest respect to earn is our own.
Nothing could be truer for me.
Degree after degree, career after career, I looked for fulfillment and happiness in all the wrong places. I was chasing success, whatever that meant. As a first-generation kid, I thought it was up to me to bring success to my...
Jul 09, 2026
permission
Con Amor #001: The Courage to be Seen
Personal Journal Entry from September 13, 2025 – Saturday 9:50AM
“I think I figured it out. I think my ‘step into the arena’ moment is realizing my biggest brand is me. I HATE this idea. I rather not. I don’t want to let people into my life. I don’t want to be relevant even. I just want to be ha...
by Debany Dávila —
Jul 01, 2026
representation